aclaire11 writes, I've been seeing the missionaries and attending an LDS church since before my Christmas break (this is while I'm at school, not at home). I was almost sure that I was going to get baptised, but then over spring break I went back to Mass, started praying the rosary again, etc. And I felt just as good doing that as when I had been going to the LDS church. And it was actually easier for me to refrain from sin. Aquinas here... Since I have served as a full-time missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (hereafter the LDS Church), and I am now a baptized and confirmed Roman Catholic of 5 years I can understand a little of where you are at on this dilemma. I am not going to tell you to remain Catholic, or that the LDS Missionaries are trying to deceive you. What I will tell you is about my own experience. I left the LDS Church before I ever attended my first Catholic Mass, though I had attended many Protestant churches (too many to number). So unfamiliar was I with what is a Catholic Mass that I brought something along to read and keep me amused. I was busy, busy, busy the entire hour...standing up, sitting down, knelling, etc. I was amazed at how truly interactive it all was. On the way out, I was handed a parish bulletin, not sure if I would ever return (it all seemed a little strange, as it still does to my still LDS wife). I opened up the bulletin, and read an announcement for the RCIA program (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) - "Want to become Catholic, or simply want to know more?" So, I went to a preliminary/introductory meeting with the RCIA Director one evening. What impressed me the most about this first personal encounter with Catholicism was just how open it all seemed. We were told that RCIA is a process that we would decide just how far we wanted to go, and that if the Catholic faith was not the correct "fit" for us, that she and everyone else involved wished us well on our faith journey. That was late August, 2002. This is *not* to suggest that there was no commitment to RCIA, since if one wanted to learn more about catholicism then one had to attend class, and the RCIA class met every Tuesday night (from 7 to 9 pm) every week except Thanksgiving and two weeks at Christmas until Easter, in April (that year). It was a remarkable process, and one that I look back upon fondly, as I had others that helped me along the way. So the missionaries keep asking me how I "feel" after going to the LDS church, reading the BOM, and having the meetings. Like this is supposed to be some sort of indicator. Well most of the time I actually feel worse because I get all confused and stressed out when I wonder if maybe the LDS church IS right. This is an element of Mormonism that I think is rather odd...the emphasis on "feelings". What makes it puzzling is that in an LDS Church Fast and Testimony Meeting what happens in nearly every instance is that a member/leader gets up and testifies that they *know* that Joseph Smith was a Prophet of God, that the Book of Mormon is "another Testament of Jesus Christ" and that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the only church with the fullness of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Question: how exactly is an emphasis on "feelings" consistent with statements of belief phrased as *knowledge* statements? I mean, before spring break I was so sure about the LDS church, but right after that when I was home and didn't see the missionaries or read the BOM I was sure about the Catholic Church. Tough spot to be in... And is "feeling good/happy" really a good basis for choosing a religion? Some of the nicest, kindest, happiest people I know are Catholics, some are Evangelicals, and some are LDS. How do I sort this all out? Since you are asking the question I will give you my best answer: no, it is not. Why? Well, I am not going to quote you a Bible verse (though I am tempted), but what I will simply state as something most everyone readily understands: feelings can and do change one day, week, month and year to the next. For example, Monday evening I was feeling very low after I experienced some setbacks at school (sigh, in my mid 40's and back in school...ugh). And then last night, after going for a bicycle ride to run an errand, I felt on top of the world and slept peacefully. Bottomline: religious truth should never be primarily based upon subjective feelings.