Please help me out guys.
I'm a practicing Mormon and have run into this situation a few times while out on business trips or at dinner with my wife and another couple.
Rather than splitting up the bill, the party each puts their credit card in with the check and asks the waiter to pick one.
Lately I've found myself getting more and more excited by the prospect of going out to dinner to play this "game", sometimes even more than the dinner itself. It's beginning to strain my relationship with my wife and the Lord. Is this normal? Is the "game" really a form of gambling? If it is, what's the best way to seek help and stop this destructive behavior.
Thx,
Steve