How do you fix a broken heart?

[daenvgiell]

I just hope you are clear in the means and motives of the process. Is the breakup real or just a tantrum? Are you really done with him and his inconsistencies or you are just pouting to get his attention?

I feel for you. I hope you can find comfort and solace in your friends, family and the Gospel. There is nothing more healing than the words of the Savior. I am not sure how "far" you took this relationship but you may want to take a break, talk to someone, take a class. It is important that you really, truly understand what happened. I am not talking about a recollection of the facts, but true insights into the dynamics of the relationship. You should avoid falling into the self mitigating bias that it was "his fault." It was also YOUR fault for daydreaming, fantasizing and using your "heart" instead of your head.

Sorry if I sound a bit harsh at times. I hold women to a higher standard since it is obvious they are smarter than men by an order of magnitude. I still care much for how you feel and worry how you'll handle the aftermath of the relationship.

My prayers are with you my young sister.

Thankyou for your input, but no it's not a tantrum just to get his attention, we both talked to each other calmly and came to the mutual agreement that it is best not to go any further, we are not right for each other and it isn't going to work between us. It is both of our faults, I'm not blaming him fully for it, and I'm not blamely me fully for it.

I think I am doing ok, actually I feel kind of bad because it doesn't seem to hurt so much already, does that make me a bad person? Although I have a friend who seems to be getting a bit close, but I told him that I need my space, he seems to understand the situation, I don't actually know if he's looking for anything more than friends, but thats all I want right now, I still need time to let things settle between my ex and I, even though we are still close friends.

Thankyou for your prayers