Hi, I am new to this site as well, but i can't help wanting to offer what little advice i can. Frankly, i haven't even been a parent yet, but we all have our different trials and, for what it's worth, here's a little of what I've learned: No matter how spiritual you think you are you can always be receiving more revelation. I think part of the reason for our trials in this life is to teach us to turn to our Heavenly Father. During my hardest trials I have found myself praying during some of the most random times of the day. I've also found that my prayers are way more sincere as well. then, when everything is back to normal i seem to slack off on my prayers again. But trial after trial has taught me that during the good times i should pray as if I was in the middle of the trial. Because i remember what i felt like during those trial i remember that i need to always plead for help. Maybe Heavenly Father is trying to teach you how to really talk with him. Whatever it is, remember that there is always more help out there available from His loving hand. Draw near unto Him and He will draw near unto you. and then Remember what you've learned. It was often the fact that the Nephites forgot "the captivity of their fathers" that they fell back into sin. Well, i wish you the best and will pray for you! chuch86
