I agree with willowthewhisp here, I am a counseler by profession and I am concerend that his attratcion to her was superfical when they first ,met and now that she has gained a few pounds and does not care about herself gives me a few red flags buyt what you friend needs to do is read the march or february ensign about a mother who feels that she is not worthy or good looking enough for her husabnd and he needs to apply it to himself.