MoeWymer

Well okay, so yes I may still enjoy scaring some because they are so timid, not exactly what I'm used to being around. The rest ... I don't I know they are nice guys and everything I know that because I know they're exactly what you look for when you are ready to settle down, etc, but sometimes they just go on and on and on and when they don't they say something completely random which usually leaves me thinking what the?!!!! Anyway, you are right. If I really wanted to I could tone down my barriers with them and see what happens, but I guess I'm just not ready yet. Don't know why, I know I want it, I guess I'm just not ready. :shrug: So ladies looking for church worthy young single adult men that will make perfect husbands ... they're all living in Rarotonga. Go to the Arorangi Branch! See you there.

Well, I'm not complaining about not being able to find a nice guy to settle down with. I'm complaining about not having any idea how to pick up the nice guys as rightly so (small island, only 11 thousand) they are scared of me and don't know how to approach me for fear of getting smacked in the jaw or laughed at. I've been really trying to act normal and friendly like, but it looks like me reputation kind of proceeds me. I guess it doesn't help that quite a few of our church leaders like reminding visiting inactives that it can be done! HELLP!!!!!!!!!

Sorry Spacemecha but I agree with islander It's a major problem I find with dating Mormon guys, the whole communication thing is very confusing. You need to sit down and be pretty straight with her, because I'm telling you now, she's clueless to your feelings for her. Look at it this way, at least once you know you definately know how to take the next step. Good Luck!

Nah, I love the weather here too much.

Well, not in NZ, but I've got a sister who needs to find a decent guy, are you a guy? Me, I'm having a problem finding a member that is active and decent, eg. I get along with. Basically my problem is my whole life I've been attractted to bad boys, I've had my full now believe me, the problem being, there are no AVAILABLE active guys in my area. I live on Rarotonga which is in the Cook Islands a very tiny island where most of the guys are either, non-members, related or just plain weird. Do you have any helpful tips?

Some boat but I found that everyone quite supportive in our small branch and they still are. You don't need to see the Branch President or Bishop to go, they let you come to them when you feel the time is right for you. Been back for 3 months now and feeling much better for my daughter and me.

Hi Sam and thank you for starting this thread. It's comforting that there is someone out there that understands what you are going through, though it sounds like your a bit closer to your goal then I am and I want you to know that it is very encouraging to me. Thank you.:)

My name is Moe (pronounced Moi), currently living back with my parents in the Cooks. Was born in the church, but went as inactive as I think you can get and have only recently started coming back to church. Finding it hard to still keep my old friends while trying to find my way back and finding it even harder to make new friends or at least active members of the church in my age group. Decided to join the forum in hope to have some kind of community feel to help me find my way. :)