Instead of sleeping since I have to work early (on Sunday. Again.) my mind is trying to figure out what to do next. My sweetheart of 17 years is bi-polar. We recently found out that our 16 year old has slept with the guy she wasn't allowed to date. DH isn't handling the stress well. My mom has moved in with us since my sister she was living is going thru a nasty divorce. DH and I are stressed over our jobs as several people there have been laid off. Add to that our basement flooded and caused 6 Gs of damage. No insurance. I know that God loves me. I know that He cares about my life. What i don't know is what do I do next? I'm responsible for my mom (darling, old blind) DH (bi-polar, off his meds) 3 kids whom I love dearly, and me. None of this is new. Others have had these problems and come thru them valiently. I feel struck dumb, immobile, spiritually deaf. Believe me. Being physically deaf is SO much easier to deal with.