so sorry to hear all this. i think blessed had some great advice. remember to do everything you can. don't let the adversary over power you or your eternal "health" if the adversary steals his soul, don't let him take you down with him and the Lord will provide a way.
unfortunately, my EQ Pres hubby cheated too. with a girl at work. she wanted a married man, because her 10 yr marriage had ended because of his infidelity. long story short, she wanted to get even. i was just in the way of her plan. she WAS the adversary - but I did not and will not let her take my eternal family from ME!!
good luck to you. i am here anytime you need to talk.
mamap