Hi Everyone.
OK, a little background:
I was baptised in 1997. I went inactive soon after, because I met a woman, and broke the law of chastity etc etc. I flirted with the church for years on and off.
I have basically been inactive since a few months after my baptism, and recently returned to full activity in January of this year, and pretty much haven't missed a beat since, apart from a few struggles, but that's the nature of the beast.
So I got married 11 years ago. I have two kids, 10 and almost 8.
Here is my problem:
Much to my own shame, I have virtually taught my kids nothing about the Gospel, nor anything related to it. I have often thought about it, but figured it would be hypocritical of me to be preaching one thing, whilst sitting back with a beer and a smoke....so I elected not to discuss unless I was specifically asked.
Now, I really want my kids to be involved in the Gospel, because it once again has lightened my life...
My wife is not a member, and tends to be a little contentious when the subject is raised. She bothers me greatly!
Anyway, I was sitting in Sacrament this morning, and it dawned on my to force the kids to come church each week.... My reckoning is that at least that way they might have a foundation, and maybe, hopefully.....they might WANT to come along once they see how much fun and good for them it can be.
At the moment, the kids find all sorts of excuses o reject my invitations....they follow the lead of their mother, who is not overly supportive. She supports ME going to church (as in doesn't jump up and down about me going) but doesn't encourage the kids to go.
What should I do? I want my kids to be safe in the next life....and this one.....