winniemae

Having owned a facility where we did weight counseling, we often found the women who were most concerned about the visual side, rather than the health side, of weight loss were the ones who had doubts about how attractive their husbands found them to be. You said your husband had no problem with your having the procedures, but my question would be whether you think he wants you to have it because you're not attractive to him. This may take some deep and honest evaluation on your part. If you do this just to please someone else, you may have some repercussions. What if he doesn't respond as you expect? Will you then do just as your doctor warns is possible? Will you want to do more until you reach that perfection you want from someone else? And, if he responds with alot of enthusiasm, will you wonder if he JUST loves you for your body and not yourself? This may not pertain to you at all, but I believe it is worth looking at before you make a decision. In general. If one lost a breast to cancer, I do not believe Heavenly Father would be the least bit opposed to them having surgery to rectify a loss; If one had breast surgery just to be more alluring to others - they might be placing too much emphasis on worldly opinion and run the risk of getting caught up in something that is detrimental to themselves. As with most things, it is the intent that is most important.

I think our human language is as limited as our eternal knowledge and he uses the words we're familiar with and it's our spirit that needs to be activated to get the correct interpretation. I vote for D...none of the above.

Hi, I'm new to this site, but here's my take. Choice (agency) is eternal. We have all had it since....forever. One important choice was when we chose to leave our intelligence state to become a spirit child of our Father. We spent some amount of time progressing until we reached a point at which we were ready to act upon the choice made in the council in Heaven where we decided to sublimate our spirit body and intelligence by a human body. We needed to 'forget' the spiritual power we possessed so that we could learn how to achieve the proper balance between the two, which would take us to a greater level of spiritual and physical development. We made the spiritual choice, but the mortal form could not put it into force until we made the choice in the human sphere. Adam and Eve held the power of attorney for all of us and they were given two opposing opportunities in order to consciously open the door for all of us to progress. I think the word 'sin' sometimes carries connotations that are not always accurate in the eternal concepts of choice.