I feel exactly the same way as your wife about hanging it up. I refuse to do it. It bothers me and I felt from the minute I heard it like it was written specifically to address the whole gay/gender identity issue. Luckily my husand is not uptight about what goes on our walls. He also remembers what he learned in church about relationships and compromising. I think that if you truly want it to live on your walls and your wife feels mortified at the thought of being perceived in a way that is misrepresentative of who she is and she's STILL willing to let you hang it up as long as it goes away when her friends are there, then you should consider yourself a lucky man for having a woman who is flexible and go with the compromise.
