tp4ever

I haven't been in your situation but I know a little about others who have. My grandma married my grandpa despite religious differences. For years she would get their kids ready and he would take them to church. He finally got baptized when my dad was old enough to do it. Kind of the opposite happened to him. He was the only sibling in his family to join the church and they did not approve. It didn't seam to matter though. I have no doubt that my grandpa regrets his decision. He knew what he was doing was right for him. On the flip side, I have an aunt who married and changed his lifestyle so they could be married in the temple. I don't think he REALLY wanted to change though. After having 2 kids, he returned to his old ways. I can only guess that my aunt might possibly regret her decision. My point is, (pretty much what you have already decided) I don't think you should become a member for anyone else but you. If you do decide to be baptized, make sure you are ready. I knew someone who got baptized and then decided she wasn't ready. As to being "accepted" by your bf's family, I wish there was something definite to tell you but there are so many factors (personality, etc.) that come into play. I don't know if any of this helps but hoping.