and the guilt is killing me. My husband and I have been together for only 4 years (we were sealed in the temple one year ago). The problem is that we fight a lot and he is so hostile and cold towards me, it has turned off the love I used to have for him. He has serious communication issues (can't calmly speak to me about things when he's upset) and he gives me the cold shoulder for days. He did not grow up in the church and although he seems to want to be LDS, he does the unrightious dominion thing and resists a lot of the basic rules (like going to church every Sunday, keeping the sabath day holy, etc). He also has a very agressive personality which came out after we got married. I feel so helpless b/c I don't think leaving is the right thing to do but I can't stand being around him or even hearing his voice sometimes. I talked to my bishop about this one time and he suggested counceling but when my husband found out I talked to the bishop, he got very angry and refused counceling. How can I stay with someone who makes me so unhappy? I am also trying to deal with the guilt of feeling so much hatred towards him. It is so depressing b/c I should feel love for this man but I don't. We have so many more issues than just what I've told you here, but do I really want to spend eternity with someone I hate here on Earth?