Wisher

I'm with beefche..... I think we came HERE to make the choice of who we will marry.... there are too many variables involved here on earth to find THE ONE

Even if you give the relationship a break for 6 months, if he really cares about you, he may be able to "be good" for that long to get you back.... but real change may not have taken place. Porn addiction does not go away..... When marriage life gets rough and rocky, past behaviors can easily resurface. I have a brother-in-law who was into porn... he changed his behavior, went on a mission, and got married in the temple... since then, when life hit some bumps in the road, he paid for sex with prostitutes (more than once) was back into porn and has made life a living hell for my sister-in-law.... not saying that your guy would do this, but real change doesn't come easy....I think you are taking a risk.... I bet you can find a guy that is not in the middle of these problems. If you have kept yourself clean, should you take the risks that this guy is bringing in... repentance is real, and Christ can change people, but sometimes people think they have repented when in reality they have only stopped a behavior for a while..... be very careful