Is it appropriate for one spouse to ask the other if they are worthy to have a temple recommend?
Our recommends are expiring and I scheduled appointments for us to visit with the bishop. I told my wife the day and time of the interviews and she said " oh, well, I'm not going to mine". When I asked her why she said that she didn't know if she had a testimony anymore. I have tried to talk with her about it a few times and she skirts the questions. She refuses to study scriptures with me yet she wants to maintain a facade and take care of her calling as the Relief Society Activity Planner.
I am wondering if this is arising from a worthiness issue. I know worthiness is a very personal thing and is ultimately between her and the Lord. But it effects me and my children as well.
Would it be out of line to ask her if she is worthy to have a recommend?
