Hi all, first time here and was just looking for some advice from people. I have been married for 2 years and my wife left me about 10 days ago. let me give you some background info on us. we've been together for 8 years. met in high school and dated for six and were married in 2009. I had a hard time in my teen years and strayed away from the church. my wife has a lot of hang ups about her past especially involving her parents and their marriage because her mom walked out on them and cheated and after a few years her dad took her back and she has a lot of pain from that. They are also born again christians and their congregation is very anti-mormon. My wife decided to get baptized lds a year before we were married and it put a huge strain on her relationship with her family. Everyone in her family has a lot of pain and suffers from depression. Since we've been married we have only been semi active in the church and i didn't do anything to help my wifes testimony because i was still struggling with my own. 10 days ago my wife says she is no longer happy and can't be in this relationship anymore. she says she can never be the wife i need her to be and even though she loves my family she says she doesn't fit in and can never be happy like this. she says she just wants to be happy and have fun and doesn't want to married any longer. She really has a lot of issues from her past and i don't know what to do. she says she can't live the next part of her life with me in it. she says she can never fail on her own because i have always been there to pick up the pieces. Says she loves me and i can see her fight herself on her choice to leave to comfort of our home. we have no kids and i work and am a full time student planning a career in medicine. She works full time and makes very good money. I don't want a divorce i want to work on our marriage but she always quits when anything gets hard, always has. i feel like a failure because i really love her and there is nothing i can do to work on our marriage. I was just looking for advice from people. also i haven't told my family because i don't think they will understand, very strong lds family with traditional beliefs about marriage. we were not married in the temple. its too painful and i don't want to talk about with my family yey. any advice......thanks
