Casetiel

Thanks everyone, I talked to my bishop today and he gave me a blessing. Eowyn, I'll try your method for a few days and if that doesn't work i'll check in with my doctor. Thanks again, everyone.

I've prayed, but I should probably see my bishop about it...

I know I've had them before but it's every night, and they're....different, now.

Hey guys, I've been having some problems lately. I was baptized back in early November, and I was raised outside the church my entire life prior to that. That being said, I've fooled around and done my fair share of stupid things. Now I'm dating a wonderful, beautiful, upstanding young woman at my ward. Everything is going swimmingly with her, but when I go to sleep, bad things happen. I keep having persistent(almost every night), vivid dreams about sexual relations. With my girlfriend, with all sorts of different women I know. I wake up covered in sweat every night and I don't know what's happening to me. When i described these to a non-member friend of mine, he told me it sounded like I was having "sexual night terrors". This has been happening since early december. :confused:What do I do?

OK thanks everyone, I'll let her handle it=)

OK thanks so much Eowyn. My problem is more that I don't want this guy to come back after she stops writing him at all and find me here. I really don't want to make any enemies here, but I guess it isn't my business yet. Thanks again=D

No, I was helping her with schoolwork and she pulled up her email to check if there were any other assignments:lol:. I just glanced and saw maybe 5 emails from the poor guy. I'm relatively new to the ward, but I have no desire for people to not like me=/ I told her that she should tell him about me, but she won't listen. She's pretty much stopped replying to all his emails, but that's kind of a crappy way to go about this. Advice?

So, me and my lady friend have been dating for a few months, nothing too serious. I was helping her with a college paper and saw that when she checked her email, she had maybe 5 emails from her old boyfriend, who's on a mission at the moment. She isn't interested in him anymore, and I asked her to actually tell him that they're done, but she doesn't reply to anything he writes at all. I'm pretty sure he expects her to be there when he comes hime in a year, and he doesn't even know about me, as far as I can tell. So, I feel kind of bad about his predicament, and I don't want to make any enemies in my ward, so I ask... should I feel badly? What can I do?

Thank you guys very much. This helped a lot. I think I've received my answer from Him and I know what to do. I really appreciate it=]

Hello, everyone. My name is Casey, and I need your advice, because I don't know who else to turn to. My problem starts with meeting my good (female) friend at high school graduation. We got to talking and started hanging out, until after a while i found out that she was LDS. So I went to church with her after some prodding, and for about two months now I've been investigating the church on my own. My issue is that I had a bit of a crush on her, but I was OK, I was dealing with it just fine. The problem stated when one night recently after going running together, we admitted to each other that romantic feelings are present for both parties. BUT, we cannot do anything until I'm a member and baptized, say her parents. So now here I am a month later, and we still hang out, and not being able to act on mutual feelings is killing me. So my question is: I want to join the church, but how will I know when I'm truly ready to join, and not have other motives(her) subconciously moving me along too quickly? Any advice is greatly appreciated.