Marriage is hard. I remember before my husband and I got married, we were counseled by our stake president (now divorced after having an affair) that love didn't keep marriages together but commitment. I am finding that to be true in my own marriage. I frequently feel like I no longer love my husband, but I am committed to my marriage because of the covenants I made and because I don't have the heart to hurt my children by breaking up our family. I appreciate what Rameupmpton said. I have a duty to love my husband, even though I don't like him, so I'd better get to it. I recommend to you a movie called "Fireproof." It is a faith-based movie about divorce-proofing your marriage. I bought the companion book and want to follow the steps to strengthen my marriage. I know divorce carries it's own set of problems and the grass is definitely not greener on the other side. Thanks to all for all of the good counsel. I needed to hear it today. Dory, I pray that you will find your answer. I know what you're going through.
