We went Sunday to our first Sacrament service. He was not impressed. He hates singing (I told him almost ALL churches will sing). The fact there is no one preaching kinda threw him. He didn't like that Church starts at 1 pm and last till 4. so he made me leave after Sacrament. IF he agrees to go back Sunday I told him I want to go to Sunday school. If they separate us I know he will freak out. I want to go to relief society but that will require him to go to Priesthood meeting he won't have me to hold him up and be his "Front man" and will be very uncomfortable. to make matters WORSE the missionary we have been working (and he has bonded) with is leaving next week.
I know he is not willing to give up smoking, coffee, OR ice tea. However he is looking for somewhere he belongs and for some place he feels wanted. In soooooo many Churches he has gone to he feels like they are happy for you to walk in the door the first time but then they
'toss you to the wolves' and forget about you as soon as you get baptized or join the church. Honestly at this point I don't care what church he joins as long as he finds something. not that I think he will change overnight but the yelling, cursing, and many of the other things that he does is all proof of his lack of guidance from Jesus and Heavenly father.
I hope we can find what he is looking for with the LDS because for me I think they have what I have been looking for!