bluesky4

My husband wants a divorce at least that is what he said 2 weeks ago. I talked him out of it but it's so painful to know that is how hes feeling. We have been married 14 years. He has been though some hard times and off and on for years it's been a rough marriage. I love him though. I want my family to be together. I am tired of all the drama but willing to patient. I don't want to tell all details but we have been through a trial where another woman was involved and I think hes feeling guilt because he has never made it back full circle with our bishop. I forgave him. It took me some time but I did and I just feel he has never been able to forgive himself. He's distant so we don't talk much in fact he has asked me not to have any expectations from him right now and that he needs space. He goes to church but has no calling and just doenst really feel like going. He is going for our 2 sweet kids he says. To me it's better then him not going at all. He seems withdrawn and does not much brings him happiness right now. It's sad to me and I don't feel like there is not much I can do. Help!! No bishop appt in the world will help at this point nor does he want to see a therapist with me. I think I may start going for myself as my soul is hurting and I am not sure how to deal with the pain.

I am not sure but I can only reply not start a new thread. I need some advice. My husband wants a divorce at least that is what he said 2 weeks ago. We have been married 14 years. He has been though some hard times and off and on for years it's been a rough marriage. I love him though. I want my family to be together. I am tired of all the drama but willing to patient. P.S how can I enter a thread? How do I get permission?