well.. be yourself first off.
for me.. there is nothing more obnoxious than a guy who is trying to be something he's not.
but.
I think
good morals,
humor,
respect,
good manners,
great personality,
and romantic
but hey.
and about the looks thing.
they are the most important thing IF!!! you want a shallow girl.
my personal opinion... looks are important. . . but there are more important things. a lot more important things. when i get to know someone and their personality shines through.. they just get cuter and cuter as i get to know them. :)