Penstress

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  1. He was a engineer gone doctor. Yes, the statistic is true. But yes, neither of us knew. I just couldn't live that way. No offense please....
  2. I feel awkward too. And I'm cool!! Do your visiting teaching, no better way to make friends.
  3. Bless the house
  4. Newbies are changing lots as the gospel changes all things. We have lots to tackle as new members. Be patient with them. Many are called.... They don't all stay active but give them that chance by showing love.....
  5. It affected me. My husband of 13 yrs was diagnosed after a very empty n lonely marriage. We just divorced 18 months ago. They have 80 % divorce rate. Sad... Hard on the spouse, you have no idea.
  6. I get it, been exactly there. You're not crazy. The lord knows your sufferings. Trust me. Get the confirmation you need to have to leave. The relief I felt was so real. You can't do wrong and feel relief. It's not fair to him either. They know it!!! Let him be free to have one who loves him like he deserves. We both remarried immediately and are soooo happy!!!! Now there are two happy couples instead of one unhappy one. Oxox
  7. I didn't kiss my husband passionately for 12 years. I was repulsed. It happens. We make mistakes.
  8. I disagree.... I've been there. I married an idea, three months in knew something was very wrong. By the end of the first year I was in trouble. 12 more yrs of sex twice a year bcuz I had no feelings for him in that way. I made a mistake and fear of persecution, etc kept me in this empty, lonely marriage. Now I'm remarried I have real joy. I've never worked so hard or wanted something so much because I love him in that way. There are different types of love. Marriage is a great reward for kindness.
  9. I got a blessing so powerful about my now husband. . It said the lord held back and reserved him for me.
  10. You can't force someone to love you. We all make mistakes and we can in the spouse we choose sometimes. I've done it. I've divorced and am now awaiting sealing cancellation as I remarried immediately. I made a mistake but thank goodness the lord forgives our humanness when we do. Marriage should bring us joy.