We have been married for 17 years. I am 60 and he is 55. We have no children. The marriage has been sexless for about 8 years now. I have been catching him for years with internet matchups and emailing and some phone calling. He always denies it and starts a fight over something else to not talk about the problem.
We were both laid off from work 2 years ago and just completed bankrupty. The house in in forclosure and the bank will take it soon.
Both of my parents recently passed away. And I have inherited their house and some money.
I am also now left to care for my downs syndrome brother that is 42 years old.
My parents house has a legal rental and my brother gets social secutiry and My parents left me enough that we can live on it for about 6 more years.
I am very heavy and so is my husband. So when prospective employers see over people in their 50's it is impossible to get a job.
My husband is 6"4" and he weighs 350 lbs. He can still get woman interested in him because there are so many lonly woman out there.
I have just checked the cable phone account and see 2 different woman that have been calling him and that he is calling. He makes these calls late at night when I am sleeping or when I am out shopping.
I just confronted him with the calls and he is furious he says I am spying on him.
What should I do?
