Brando112747

I had 2 separate dreams last night on the same subject. I've been going through a hard time in my life for the past little bit and been asking for help. I'm wondering if it's just my brain telling me what I want to hear, or if it could be God helping me. Not sure what to do because if it's God then I should do what he says. Does God talk to us in our dreams, or is that just for general authorities?

Isn't it true girls are supposed to get married instead of a mission? I think I've heard that multiple times.

My girlfriend got her mission call 3 weeks ago and doesn't leave till the beginning of August. I am excited for her and have been supporting her. Even gave her a little gift basket of stuff from her country. Problem is I feel like she's severing ties because of her mission. We've only been dating 2 months, but I feel like I could marry this girl. When you know you know. We haven't talked about it. I don't want to scare her off and I'm not sure she's ready to be married. Not entirely sure I am either, but I feel I could be in a year or so. If she does go I feel I could wait for her, but I'm worried we won't even be dating that long. I know she likes me, I just think the mission has gone to her head not to be serious with anyone. I want to say something, but I'm afraid if I do that it will be over. Any advice is much appreciated. I hope this all makes sense.