SwilliamT

I know we're going to feel stressed and scared. And really there's no worry. We're going to focus on what we need to. We both have felt that we are meant to be together. And two years is a short time to wait for eternity, so it's possible. Thank you for your stories.

I'm merely looking for advice as well as words of comfort. Here I the situation: I'm 18, almost 19, going on a mission in July (Scotland/Ireland if you ask) and I'm excited about going, but I do have a girlfriend. I was taught to avoid this before the mission, and I understand why, but I wasn't looking for a relationship, it sort happened. Like all couples in this predicament, we are terrified. But we know it is what The Lord wants. She is scared of what would happen while we're apart. We love each other so much! And if I was an RM, we'd be planning a wedding right now. We've prayed for and felt God's approval throughout the 6 months we've been together. So I want to know what can we do to relieve some fears and stress to recognize God's hand, without potentially ruining our relationship? Please don't criticize. The last thing I need is someone telling me I should dump her so I can focus, or something to that effect. Thank you for any advice you can give. I love the gospel!!