Very well put Gwen. It's like people think of getting sealed much like some of mainstream christianity thinks of accepting jesus and being saved. As if it's "Well, that's done, bound, and taken care of forever no matter what I do, because I "accepted christ/got sealed". It's ALL about our actions and deeds once the ordinance has been made, and now you have to live it. It boggles my mind how people think we won't have our agency or that we'll be damned and stuck with someone you were sealed to in a previous marriage but only had a clearance done with, yet you're trudging through the highest degree of glory, miserable because you're sealed to two people, one who you used to be married to, and there's this eternal elephant in the room causing all sorts of discord because you're sealed to two women at the same time for ever and ever. Ha... yah, cuz that's how it is...