Oh will someone help me. My husband has/ had porn addiction. He went thru the bishop etc was disfellowshipped etc. recently he was diagnosed with a fatal disease. We went on a mission & I discovered he NEVER really quit his addiction. Well the Issue is I need/ want to forgive him. I am praying I can do that. I do not have time to do this " slowly". Do I just say the words and continue to work on this after he passes! How will I know I have forgiven him. You all know the hurt the years of with holding meaningful sexual attention with some excuse that was really because of his own gratification. I am hurt, I guess I am still mad, but would like to really forgive him face to face. After 25 years of deception and hurt how do I do this?
