I VT this sister who seems like she uses me. I have given her a ton of clothing when she was in need. I have given her things I was going to sale for free (I had one thing sold and I back out and gave it to her for free). I have babysat her kids many times. I am fine with service but they way she acts towards me makes me feel like I am becoming a door mat. I will ask her if she want to meet at a park or something, and she won't even respond back. She will get ahold of me if she needs babysitting though. I think that I will just stop doing things, but then my VT partner feels like I should just do them anyways because we are suppost to. I honestly just want to ask for another person to visit. What would you do? Am I in the wrong for not wanting to help another person, or am I making myself a doormat by helping someone who will only interact with me if they need something?
