I learned decades ago that some people simply can't hold two conflicting thoughts in their mind at the same time without needing to invalidate one or the other concepts. I have no interest in entering into a semantical debate with you over what to me is obvious, yet to you seems incomprehensible. God can most certainly forbid me from choosing to kill, yet still reserve the righteous ability to command it when He requires. That's His prerogative, not mine. - I have no idea what game you are hoping to begin with your question about marriage, but I don't come to this site for pointless debate. If you want to debate me on Quora I'll indulge you there. This is a moderated site where polite discussion is encouraged. Your style seems intentionally confrontational, and while I don't shy away from such discussions, this site does not encourage such behavior. You can find me there as Joseph Perez. Bring your A game, poor debate skills are usually creamed there.