Why are you wasting your life worrying about him file for divorce and move on. Life is short and your wasting it. Be positive and think happiness make a plan for your life which does not involve him. Self sufficiency!!!!
QUOTE=adeline;569956]Hi everyone, I have a sad story but a true one; i've been dealing with my husbands infidelity and he outright denies it; it's been a devastating 3 years of my life! I put so much time and effort into this marriage over two decades. We have a grown daughter who got pregnant while I was trying to defend myself in court that the mistress had filed an Order against me for calling her one time at work and told her 'do you know he's married'? i have evidences of him talking to her they both work together. I groomed him from a blue colar worker to an office worker. I am peeved at this betrayal.
It's been so sickening and i take medz so i can sleep, and try to function. I have been suffering depression as well. I go to professional counseling.
I don't trust him anymore and recently he started looking at porn and killed the computer with a virus and blamed me for looking at penises. He was so pissed that he actually took the computer and I had no computer.
I can't seem to heal if he doesn't admit it. He said 'go heal yourself'--he had been abusing me emotionally and just realized it after therapy. He's very mean now to me and keeps finances paperless and when I asked to see them he says no. He withholds intimacy and money from me. I feel so helpless at times.
Oh and he's been gaslighting me too; misplacing my things and then when i ask if anyone seen it it comes back--he keeps calling me crazy.
I pray to God everyday to give me strength to make it to the next day. I don't even recognize this man he can't even look me in the eye alot of the times.
Any information would be a beneift to me. Thank you and God bless!
