kissing a married woman who is not your wife is wrong, anything more than kissing is bordering on adultery...adultery can get you excommunicated from the church Perhaps I don't really understand the word "adultery". Am I able to commit adultery even though I'm not married? Or would I be making her commit adultery thereby bringing those sins down upon my own head? If there is sex and one or both partners are married but not to each other then it's adultery regardless if one is single. Being a participant in a sin makes you guilty of that sin....."Hey officer...I didn't actually rob the store....my friend did, I was just driving the car", or "I didn't actually kill the guy, my friend did, I only gave him the gun, encouraged him to do it and watched as he shot him" or "Lord, I didn't actually commit adultery, she was the married one, I was single, I only did what she wanted." No...my Brother don't ask anyone here to justify this for you.....if you haven't gone that far with her then stop....if you have....go see your Bishop and talk to him....repent and you'll feel a whole lot better....have you been to the Temple and received your endowments? Yes, I am a returned missionary as well. Perhaps I've grown weak in the faith, I'm not sure. But I havn't done anything with her yet and am grateful for your replies.