Sorry if I have 2 replies .. My last one wasn't showing but it could be something I've done .. I'll claim newbie status here lol. I have some close friends who are married to non members and are very happy. There prob is some part of them that wish things were different. But all are extremely faithful women in the gospel. I myself am about to marry a non member which is completely not what I ever thought I would do. But I have been very prayerful and had quite a spiritual experience in the process. He is an amazing man and who knows what Heavenly Father has in store for him .. I mean he is His child too and is loved just the same if not more. Sadly the only negative has been the judgment and comments from other members which isn't the best missionary tool for him, but it hasn't deterred him either.