Tell her! Do not live in secret! My husband just revealed to me that he has been a sexual/pornography addict for 25 years! We have been married for 17 of those years. He was in so deep that it finally escalated to 3 affairs and an excommunication! He tells me that it is in those secret places that Satan likes to play. He has told me everything and the release of that burden is immense for him. He is attending 12 step programs and we are stronger now than ever. Don't let it be a secret...that is where Satan wants it to stay...and where he can convince you to escalate. My husband started a blog about his addiction if you are interested: A Battle Worth Winning
