I am in a similar position to echosparks. My wife and i have considered joining your Church, having read quite a bit on the web. We have been happily married for 5 years, but for the last 4 I have been living as a female, and have changed my name from my birth name to a female number which reflects the way I now live. I must point out that although I have taken female hormones, which helped to develop my breasts, I have no thoughts in my mind to change sex. From all of the threads which I have read, we would not be able to join. We do not want to waste the time of your Church missionaries, by letting them teach us, if it would not go any further, My wife and I are 100% in agreement, that as I live as a female, would always go to church, wearing either a dress or Blouse and Skirt, that if I cannot attend the same meetings as my wife, we will have to go to another Church, where we can be together. This is a shame, because we have read so much, and know the church is true, that if we cannot be baptised, or attend the same meetings, we will not join. Is there any advice that anyone can offer, although likely to be similar to that given to echosparks. Many thanks anyway.