I don't expect answers about what to do with my case. (Althought, that'd be great!) I'm really looking for spiritual guidance and how to reconcile counsel. No, forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean allowing abuse, but if I'm doing all I can legally do, then what? I'm still required to keep an attitude of charity, forgiveness, love, and submit to the Lord in all things. I've tried not to give in to despair, and have tried not to feel too negatively. I am remarried and have other children as well. I don't want this to destroy our family or detract from the Spirit in our home. I want to enstill hope and faith in all of my children. At the same time, they have no reason to feel security or trust in me while I am sending one of us to a place where she is hurt. I'm just really struggling for what is right. If I could know what that is, I'd do it. I have felt that I did until recently, and now every day it feels wrong. I've thought of running, even of somehow giving her away, even of murder....but none of those things would be right either. I keep thinking of the talk someone gave in a past conference "But if not..." If anyone is familiar. Basically, I pray for her to be saved, but if not, give us the strength to get through it with faith. Mostly, I pray for guidance and I continue to try to keep myself open for inspiration. It is tremendously difficult. Any help would be appreciated.