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Jumping in hoping for another source for guidance. I was raised in the RLDS faith and baptized after their change to Community of Christ. After being baptized, I realized this was a mistake and that their beliefs have changed so much that I no longer can be a part of this religion. LDS is the closest thing I have found to my personal beliefs. I would like to make connections with others who can guide me through my own roadblocks of learning more about LDS. My husband is non-practicing Catholic and not interested in religion. He feels if he is "good person" he will go to heaven. I have two kids that I am concerned will also become casual Christians. I am afraid exploring LDS further will destroy my marriage, especially if I involve my kids. My husband thinks religion is just stupids. Hoping to meet others who have split religion marriages.

Updating for anyone wondering. After prayer and study, I have decided to return and I am attending the Community of Christ church. For now it feels right. I want to be part of Christ's church so badly that I want to be baptised, however, since I was baptised in the Methodist church, I am afraid of mistaking my feelings again. How will I know when it is really really the right church? I don't want to be a faith hopper. So at 42 years old, I am going to church and my kids are going with me. My husband does not have an interest in organized faith right now, but he is welcome with us when he chooses. For now I have peace.

Thank you for asking. I am still praying. I watched the show on PBS last night. It brought more questions I need to study about. The great thing was that DH came in and watched part of the show with me. He was not disgusted or outraged. He asked some basic questions. I am glad we could share some facts with him gently. I believe the Heavenly Father is working with us. I will keep you posted. Thank you for asking about me.

Many thanks from my heart for the advice here. You have given me wonderful suggestions to consider. It makes me very sad that I can not share with my husband the great things that the LDS church has that can enrich our family. He will have a hard time just getting over those basic FAQ's that most people have that know nothing about the church other than what they have heard in soundbites and comedians. Even though he does not smoke or drink, he lashes out at a church that is known for not smoking or drinking. He has told me with regard to my family's RLDS beliefs that he can not accept a church that thinks they are the chosen church. It all makes me sad. I am going to set a fast with a couple of LDS friends and ask for guidance and strength to talk with the missionaries. Thank you, I will definitley be sharing and learning with this board.

I am married with two children. Religion has not been a part of my marriage, however we both agree that it is good for our kids. That is a deep as my husband will go with his interest in religion. I was raised in the RLDS church until I was 7 years old, when my parents took issue with our branch and left the church. My Dad has completely rejected all except the possible existance of God. My Mom yearns for the church she once loved. I am now 41 and have been praying about religion in my life and I feel I've been led back somewhat to my early religious education. I have read and researched all that has become of the RLDS church and I don't believe it is on God's track anymore. In the last year, my reading has turned to the LDS faith and I think I am ready to accept the LDS beliefs as the true church. I simply believe. I need to know where to start. I have not discussed my desire with my husband because I am sure he will go along with me and the kids belonging to any religion besides LDS. So I am stuck being a closet wanna be LDS. I have no desire to force the belief on my husband, but I very much want my kids to know the love of what God has in store for them. My problem is basic. Do I sneak out and talk to someone at the church? Is there someone who can talk to me online or by phone during the day? I hide my Ensign magazine under my bed because I am afraid my husband will think I am a loon. I have read about the failure of mixed LDS marriages and the outlook is not too good. I am torn between delving in to a religion that I love and the possibility of losing my marriage. Help if you can.