I am in need of some guidance. Please excuse my wordage, I'm trying to maintain anonymity. My ex wants to have our child sealed to them and their spouse. They are going through the temple to be sealed, and want my child to to come with them. I have not given my consent to my knowledge, but have been told that they have a document that I signed years back, around the time of our divorce, that allows them to do this already. If this is true, I don't remember it. Either way, I am torn on if I want this to happen or not. A little back ground. I am not currently a practicing member of the LDS church. Our child has been raised LDS and believes in the church and has been baptized. I was told that they WANT to do this and were in fact the one who ASKED if they could go to be sealed with them, since the church teaches that they can't get into the Celestial Kingdom without being sealed. I understand that they can get sealed when they are married, but they want to do it now - I've been told. They are not included in the "in-crowd", both in church and extended family, who have a family all sealed together nice and tight and oh so happy, and they want to be. I do not want to be the "bad-guy" in this for trying to stop it, or stopping it, but what else can I do? I am not willingly going to give my permission for my child to, by their beliefs, be taken from me for eternity. And what does that tell my child if I agree? My ex has already ingrained in their mind that I was not interested in being a part of their life before - NOT TRUE - and also lied to me about my custody rights. I have now also been told that their bishop has already scheduled the sealing and, with this supposed letter saying that I've already given my consent, there is nothing more that can be done. I was told by one person that my child can be sealed to both me and my spouse (after we die and are sealed together by a church member), and my ex and their spouse. Then another person said, "No, you can't be sealed to 4 parents, you can only be sealed to one 'set'." If there is a possibility of her being able to get all of us, that's great and I don't want to hold my child back because of my weaknesses. If, however, there is no chance that they can be sealed to all of us, I am not giving up my child. Whether I believe in the church teachings now or not, I'm not taking that chance. I also find it incredibly disrespectful of my ex to be asking me to do so. I also do not think that my child realizes what she is asking me to do, but could despise me for it in the future, if I allow this. Again, I feel like there is no way that I win in this. Either way, I am the villain. What do I do?