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thanks for all the thoughts and advice, in NZ its not possible to divorce until you have been separated for two years, in this time i do plan to get myself up and going again with my two kids. heres to the future!

i just realised my post said faithful i meant unfaithful, however, thanks for the advice and reminders of whats really important and to whom i should be relying on, i have a testimony of the atomement but have never thought to use it as a healing tool i only thought of it as always being there when i did wrong, thanks everyone.

i left an faithful spouse who after the deed became very emotionally/ physically abusive. I had to leave my best friend that i married and loved with all my heart and soul. im finding it hard to cope, theres no going back, how do you stop loving?