dz2003

There has been a lot of posts so I will clear some stuff on it, both of us are on board, not one nor the other is pushing it, and as far as the job causing us not to be together that is not the issue. And I am definite not fish for a "yes go for it" from people the person most important my wife has not said no and was open to the idea. It is not something that is brought up every day sometimes months have passed and the subject has not been discussed so were not addicted to wanting an answer yes.

You Probably are, I don't watch the news so not sure what is happening with him,

Probably, I don't watch the news so not sure what is happening with him,

I think I would need to ask Hillary how to avoid things being seen As far as being able live in the same area, this is the answer we have received and it is not now but one day or rather soon, I guess in the realm of eternity 6 years is not bad. We have looked into different avenues and spoken with Bishop and Attorneys and for right now, we need to stay put for a while. go to Church attend the Temple and it will work out

I DO very much understand the very downside or the worse case scenario that could happen, and do appreciate the responses that addressed the original question. I do wish things are different but I accept them and ask The Lord to help us with the hard times that will come. Both of us have Temple Recommends and so it isn't something "bad" we did to put ourselves in this situation we knew already going into this that it would be the case and prayed and received and answer that it was right. And so while we wait for us to be reunited one day, the idea and thought was there. We have discussed it for sometime, and just wanted to see what the general feel of it was, and I apologize if I seemed rude at any moment,

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It was more on the way Eowyn saying I had called the answers dumb and just a hint of sarcasm of "oh your welcome for the answers btw The reason we are apart is not any lack of planning, there are reasons well beyond our control, just like someone women who can't bare children no lack of planning on their part. Or someone serving no lack of planning there, or truck drivers etc, many good people who may not see their families often

It was more on the way Eowyn saying I had called the answers dumb and just a hint of sarcasm of "oh your welcome for the answers btw

MormonGator, maybe some people just don't really fell comfortable with others, I go to Church sit in that back, my work consists of sitting a a char working designing online, don't have friends if I go to the movies I go alone, same with dinner, family lives 3 states away. So I don't know the Bishop at all, nor the members, in fact I don't think they even know me I have never been given a calling since after years of being here. I guess it would fall under feeling awkward

But I am asking in sincerity if there was a Moral downside, maybe a talk or something I may have overlooked I don't know,

Gosh I feel more harassed by members more judged than non members, ya maybe you guys have it all lucky and don't have to live away from your wife for the next 6 years.

MormonGator, there are a lot of things that are ok within the realm of a marriage that would be "embarrassing" to ask a Bishop

That is why I am asking "strangers" hopefully most or some are Members, so that I won't be made fun of and ridiculed

How do even approach your Bishop on that?

I never said "Dumb" in my orignal post I did mention those because I already was aware, however it wasn't the question I was posting.