Mormonmom

Thank you guys! I really appreciate the advice I'm going to try some new things. And about putting mormonmom that is so funny I didn't even think about it. That is just what first came to my mind but you are right I'm a wife first.

My husband and I have been married for 8 years and we have four kids 4 and under one being a 8 month old baby that still gets up in the middle of the night. I love my husband and think he is attractive but I just have no desire to have sex it just makes me want to cringe. Most of the time he wakes me up in the middle of the night and that is how it ends up happening. The other night he wanted to do it so badly and I was like I am so tired I have to get up with the baby I just want to sleep right now. He got up with the baby the next night and brought her to me to nurse ( such a sweet hubby) But now he is pissed and it has ruined our entire weekend. Now looking back I wish I would have just done it and we could have had a better weekend. But I hate that. Once it has happened I'm like k that was fun. When we first got married I couldn't get my hands off him. What happened? I have read some things that birth control can effect your libido but I'm only on the mini pill. Also we don't hardly ever go on dates. So inconvenient to get a sitter for our littles. I'm sure that would be helpful. I just need some advice. HELP! What do I do? I don't feel like I can talk to anyone because it is so personal.