Alright, so backstory: a few years ago I met a girl. When I first met her, I felt a prompting that this was someone I should try to be with, perhaps even marry. I brushed aside the prompting fairly quickly after realizing she was in a relationship already. Fast forward to about 9 months ago, she broke up with her boyfriend and not long after we started going out. We’ve now been dating for about 5 months and it’s awesome! We have gotten really close and we love each other!
So, my question is: do you guys think it would be good to tell her about the prompting I felt the day we first met? On the one hand, it feels like that would be sweet and nice. On the other hand, there are so many stories about men pressuring women by telling them they’ve received revelation to marry them, and I definitely don’t want to be That Guy. I also don’t want her to think that that’s the only reason I’m dating her or something (it’s not, she’s amazing in many ways).
So: should I tell her about this prompting? If so, what would be a way to mention it that wouldn’t be super weird?
