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    EQP reacted to tubaloth in General Conference talk on EQ moves   
    I thought this was brought up in one of the World Wide Training broadcasts? I thought after the new handbook came out thats when this idea came to be...
    I can't seem to find much on lds.org
    I know our ward has tried to push this more. Not that we don't help people move, but to let the family know that they need to find people too. We tried to even do something like match what they bring... Meaning if the family gets 3 people to help move then the Elders bring 3 people to help move. But things never work out that way.
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    EQP reacted to Scovy in General Conference talk on EQ moves   
    Let me just elaborate some more on my situation, I have no issue helping people move. Its one the things I most enjoy in the church, but in this ward I am the one and only person that owns a truck.
    On a weekly basis and sometimes more I get calls and emails to help someone out. These are people that are being evicted because they hoard too much, including storage units. I get a call from the missionaries that person they are teaching is getting evicted in 4 hours and want people to come out and help this individual. A sister in the ward that is not active has a friend that needs help moving and knows the EQP will not say no. We have a sister that has been evicted twice and had her storage unit confiscated because she refuses to get rid of her junk that has not been touched in 12 years. The EQ and RS have assisted her 3 times now in the last 18 months alone. The day of someone is moving they decide to give me a call to borrow my truck and then get mad when I say no because I already have plans for the day with my family. The latest one just yesterday was someone that was having their items tossed out by an apartment manager and had till Saturday morning at 10am to pick up all their belongings. The email goes out Friday at 10pm for help on this and then a second email goes out to me asking me to come with my truck.
    These are just some of the situations that happened to me in this year alone and there are many more stories I could share. My main thing is to not harp on every one that needs help moving but when did it become the norm for the EQ to be a personal moving company for everyone in the ward, most of these individuals take advantage of the church and ward members because they know they wont say no. When legitimate help from therapists and professional organizers is needed why does a Bishop or EQP ignore this and think the ward can do it themselves.
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    EQP reacted to Anddenex in General Conference talk on EQ moves   
    Very interesting, I remember the talk being as such that the EQ is NOT a moving company.
    We have a very transient ward, and when I was EQP, we helped people move-in and out at least twice a month, sometimes 3-4 times a month.
    There isn't anything wrong with helping people move, it is when Elders, perfectly capable Elders, think the EQ is their moving company. In other words, they expected the EQP to plan everything, get everybody there, and all the trucks they need.
    Sometimes we would show up and nothing was packed. They expected the Elders to box everything up, and then move everything.
    At the end, which is now still instituted in our ward, the Elders only help with major furniture (e.g. couches, entertainment centers, TVs, Bookshelves, etc...), unless it was a single mother or a widow in the ward. If a widow or a single mother we expected them to box things up, at least the easy stuff, and then the Elders would arrive and assist in putting everything in.
    The worst experience I had was when the family expected the EQ to purchase a utility truck, and sit there while the Elders moved all the stuff in. They called the night before, and expected everybody to show at 10am in the morning the next day.
    I no longer feel it is a good show as to the desire a person has for service. There are plenty of other activities within the quorum and wards that express a person's desire to serve, even as simple as accepting the call to say a prayer during sacrament (excluding phobias).
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    EQP reacted to Wingnut in General Conference talk on EQ moves   
    Elder Oaks' overview of the worldwide training broadcast: Overview of the New Handbooks
    (emphasis mine)
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    EQP reacted to Dravin in General Conference talk on EQ moves   
    I agree, safety comes before moving.
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    EQP reacted to mnn727 in General Conference talk on EQ moves   
    You need to talk with the EQP and then the Bishop if necessary.
    As far as using your truck, no, they must use a moving truck that they arrange in advance,
    As far as moving non-members or friends of members - no
    All moves must be arranged at least 2 weeks in advance - that's how it should be.
    Talk to your missionaries and tell then that your truck is off limits, period.
    Learn how to say no when someone asks for the use of your truck.
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    EQP reacted to drjackcv in General Conference talk on EQ moves   
    Elder Oaks made very similar statements in both Nov 2010 and Feb 2011 WW Ldrship Training. He clearly suggested that we need to curtail helping people move in order to focus on more important Priesthood purposes.
    My father-in-law and I own a pick-up truck and a tough old trailer. We and our equipment have been volunteered many times to help folks move. If I don't do this, I'd need to join a health club. I enjoy it. I have moved and will continue to move as many people as anyone in our ward.
    But...
    Our mandates as Priesthood holders are
    1) turn hearts to the Savior, family (and, I think, friends)
    2) lift up hands that hang down and strengthen the feeble knees
    3) do all that we do in the name of Jesus Christ -- in His service, for His glory & honor, after His order.
    I almost never respond to a pulpit call for volunteers to move peoples' stuff. The Church is a rich source of friendships. If my friend asks me, I generally am there to help.
    My policy is to always ask, "When do the family and friends want to gather and do it? I'll be there." If a person has no family or friends who will help, then this is a wonderful opportunity for reevaluation of their lifestyle, and repentance, and downsizing. And, generally, cleaning.
    Preach My Gospel mentions helping people move only once that I can find: inviting non-member friends to help us help others. I suppose that is another Priesthood Purpose for moving. It does not endorse the common procedure in our ward of making pulpit calls to move non-members who are being taught by the missionaries.
    You lift up the hands that hang down by putting something in them to carry -- not by carrying it all for them. You strengthen the feeble knees by getting them up from the couch or computer to do something for themselves, not do it for them.
    We certainly cannot move people who have trashed a residence to another and think we are acting in the name of Jesus Christ. We are not acting in His service, certainly not for His glory and honor.
    Elder Bednar said at WWLTraining in 2010, "Everything we do should foster self-reliance." If we fail to do that, then we hurt people, and we will be held accountable. "Inasmuch as ye have done it unto the least of these, my brethren [and sisters], ye have done it unto me."
    Of course, this reasoning can be used to justify laziness and unkindness by the Priesthood and Relief Society. So can the Atonement. In the end, those who are exalted will be those who, like our Father in heaven and Jesus Christ, are able to be "ministering spirits to all heirs of salvation."