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thank you! and i apologigize. i just dont like being called a liar.

ur dumb. im not lying. idc if u think i am lying. because. well your an idiot, and im happy that are backing off.

nope im telling the truth. they realized we have free agency, and sopport us now.

her parents are behind us now. they admitted they were wrong. thanks anyways haha

haha u guys are all just saying that because you are all parents. and my parents already said they gave us support, but her parents are jerk period. noneof you understand.

thank you for that :) but it think you forgot im 18. and ive changed alot in the last 2 years even. before i converted i made really bad chioces. did bad things. and have had my fair share of hard lessens. almost too hard,so that almost no one i know has had to learn. and because of that i know how change is. i know the difference between good and bad. i never messed up in school, im very responsible. i graduated early and and im in college. im as mature as a 18 year can be. and so is my girlfriend, she also is graduating erly. and we both know a marriage will take work. they all do. there for it is worth the work for the one u love.

THANK YOU. i appricate that alot :) and i know how change is. i have changed. if it wasnt for my gf i wouldnt be on this site. she showed me the church, i love her. never will change, thank you You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Now back to the parents. Sometimes you just have to play by their rules a little longer than you would like. Now remember I'm talking as a parent here. They have their little girl who is just 17 who is thinking of taking a big step in her life. As ready as she is and you are...sometimes parents are a little blind in seeing that. Are you included in any of their family activities so they can see the kind of person you are? That they can see your testimony of the gospel? That you are right for their little girl? Sometimes we are parents just need to have our eyes opened a little. yes they know me very well! my family and her family have been friends for years, this is also why i find them freaking out and depriving us of seeing eachother ver strange. we didnt do anything wrong. and we are going to a 0ne year enagement. when we get engaged it will have been a year and a half of being together. i just wish they would see that we know what we are doing. because i do understand for their point of view now. but still. is it right for them to say we cant see eachother if we did nothing rong? Then I hope that during that year engagement they come around. I wish you the best. I really do. thank you pam.!

THANK YOU. i appricate that alot :) and i know how change is. i have changed. if it wasnt for my gf i wouldnt be on this site. she showed me the church, i love her. never will change, thank you You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Now back to the parents. Sometimes you just have to play by their rules a little longer than you would like. Now remember I'm talking as a parent here. They have their little girl who is just 17 who is thinking of taking a big step in her life. As ready as she is and you are...sometimes parents are a little blind in seeing that. Are you included in any of their family activities so they can see the kind of person you are? That they can see your testimony of the gospel? That you are right for their little girl? Sometimes we are parents just need to have our eyes opened a little. yes they know me very well! my family and her family have been friends for years, this is also why i find them freaking out and depriving us of seeing eachother ver strange. we didnt do anything wrong. and we are going to a 0ne year enagement. when we get engaged it will have been a year and a half of being together. i just wish they would see that we know what we are doing. because i do understand for their point of view now. but still. is it right for them to say we cant see eachother if we did nothing rong?

THANK YOU. i appricate that alot :) and i know how change is. i have changed. if it wasnt for my gf i wouldnt be on this site. she showed me the church, i love her. never will change, thank you

I'm afraid whatever I had to say you would probably disagree with me so I'll just leave it. I've been there done it. pam, im not meaning to disagree. im sorry. just trying to get some answers. not opinions. why are we to young? and i want to know this. just because YOU went throw it does not mean we will everyone is different. That's very true. Everyone is different. All I can do is offer opinions. Statistically marriages by those your age don't normally work out over time. Perhaps yours would if that's what you chose to do. I'm just saying....get an education (college). Earn a degree that will enable you to support a wife and future children. Many people who got married at a very young age regret some of the experiences they might have had if they had JUST waited a few more years. I'm not doubting or demeaning the relationship you have with your girlfriend. I just know from experience and the experience of many people I know that getting married too young is NOT always the best thing to do. and i agree that early marriages dont work as often, but we both have faith. and have the same goals. and i am in college actually. getting a degree. and im already sucessful with out it. so support isnt an issue but over all thank you for your opinions. sorry i had to snap at you

I'm afraid whatever I had to say you would probably disagree with me so I'll just leave it. I've been there done it. pam, im not meaning to disagree. im sorry. just trying to get some answers. not opinions. why are we to young? and i want to know this. just because YOU went throw it does not mean we will everyone is different.

so pam.? why are we to young? everyone and every love is different. theres not set age where its right. hate to break that to you. but we know what we have and are very commited

thanK you :)

grr we fallowed their rules. it did matter. they thot the rules would break us. but they made us stronger. so they want us to break up cause we are too seriuos

i know that Marriage isnt a game at all. we have an amazing relationship. and OUR plans arent changing. i didnt want your advise on getting married thank you. just wanted to know if them freaking out is normal. and i will be goin to college with her once she graduates. we are going to build a foundation together.