beebeemoma2002

My mother lives with me and my husband and our 3.5(due in june) children. We have been living this way for almost 3 yrs and of course the contention level is getting intolerable. I feel i and the referee constantly. Wiether its with the children or the more often between my mother and spouse. We live together due to the lack of income we have. My husband is unable to find a job that will pay enough for us to live without the help from my mother financialy. I am unable to work outside the home due to health issues. We got along pretty much okay for the first year or two but recently it has gotten really bad. I know it doesnt work haveing two families in one home but its all we can do for now. My mother and I attend church regularly but my husband stopped coming to church about 2 yrs ago and recently becomes aggitated if I try to descuss anything about the church. He is very very aggitated with my mother no matter what is said or done. It is the same way with my mother with him. I get the brunt of both of thier anger. It is getting to a point that I am scared for how long he will stay. I am feeling so incredibly hopeless I dont know what to do! I'm lost. Can anyone offer and help? Please.

I was at a meeting and my stake president said something that confused me. He said the the Fall wasn't apart of Heavenly Faters plan. It was always my understanding that it was. I thought that they were instructed to not eat the fruit but(this is my opinion not church doctirne) it was only like a probation period. Like they weren't allowed to eat it till they had progressed enough to be ready to gain the understanding from the fruit. That may not be true but I always thought that the fall was apart of the plan. I mean if it wasn't known that they would fall, why would we have had a need for a savior? Any insights anyone?