Well my recent problem was, i went out with a guy. He was nice and fun to be around, but I could tell that I didnt want things to get very serious between us and I didnt want our relationship to go any further than friendship. I worried for a while how I was gonna let him know that that was how i felt without making things akward between us. Well he showed no sign that he like me any more than a friend so i just enjoined the "date" thinking for sure that we were on the same page. This was confirmed in my mind when he never made any move to kiss me or hold my hand or anything like that the entire time, he wasnt even flirtatious. Turns out he REALLY liked me, I was so shocked and he felt bad. So i feel bad for making him feel bad, but i wasnt prepared had he let me know before hand i wouldnt have had a completely shocked and suprised look on my face and i could have let him down a little easier. So i would say to you guys out there if you like a girl at least let her know in some way. I am not saying you need to kiss her or anything but hint at it so she is prepared. That way when you decide to tell her a week later you dont knock her flat on the ground with surprise.
