My sister has been engaged for 9 months and set to be wed in the Temple of June 2011. 1 week ago her fiance said he doesn't feel ready....he took 3 days with no contact to "think about things" but after those 3 days he confesses that he never even thought about there future. To make a long story short, this guy has a very troubled past and was part of a 'goth' group before he joined the church, which is when he met my sister b/c she was part of the discussions. He doesn't do the necessary things to get married into the temple and isn't talking about his feelings but my sister is stubborn and is desperate to hold on: Her ex boyfriend had dumped her after 2 years of dating(and marriage talk...they also met during his discussions) and now this? She is dying inside. I told her to talk to her bishop about this but it's like she is trying to fix it herself. How do I help her? Is there any type of list for LDS members on what to do in this situation?? I am genuinely worried for my sisters emotional well-being. She was talking about "giving up" on life. Help me, Help her. Please!!