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I met a girl while at college and asked her out back in the end of November. (First and only girl I've ever asked out. I’m 20, and she’s a few months younger) When I asked her she smiled and said yes. She worked Mondays through Saturdays from eight in the morning ‘till eight at night, so she didn't have a lot of free time. During the first of December she invited me to a church event on a Sunday night, so I went. (This was the first time seeing her since asking her out. We’d talked on the phone once or twice and sent a few messages.) It was a Mormon Christmas quire video. Afterwards we talked for a little bit, then she had curfew at ten o’clock. We texted some more, and the next week she invited me to a church event on a Sunday night. I went and it was a “hang out” for kids. We had a religious lesson, then played a game. Afterwards this girl and I went to my pickup and talked for a while. She had to leave after about ten minutes for ten o’clock curfew. The following Tuesday (December 18, 2012) she had a Day off and we went to Applebee’s for our first official date. It lasted about an hour and a half. I would have to say that day was the best day of my life. At the end of the date I paid and she said she was paying the next time, possibly at Spezia. We continued to text each other and talked once more on the phone. She told me about a week later her family decided to move back home and they were leaving in a few weeks. About three hours away. I wrote he a Christmas card and gave her a cd with music of some country singers she said she likes. In the letter I explained how much I liked spending time with her, and how I’m agnostic and not certain about religion, but still follow the twelve commandments. I don’t do drugs, don’t drink and not going to. I also stated that I've never really meet anyone as nice as her. I also put a Christmas poem at the bottom. I dropped off the letter at her church that Sunday night since she had to help her family pack. A few day later she texted me saying the card was sweet and that she was going to leave in a couple of months for a two year mission trip to Brazil and that she couldn't be in a relationship during that period. Within the two months I only texted her a few times since I didn't want to bother her and I didn't really know what to say. I sent here a message on Easter and she replied back that she was unpacking and was reading the Christmas letter I wrote. Time passed ‘till two day before she was leaving for Brazil. I messaged her to have a safe trip and to keep up the good work. She replied back with the same and three exclamation points. That’s the last I've heard from her. Ever since I asked her out she’s I think about. Even though I’m unsure about religion I still pray for her every night. I hadn't prayed in years before I met her. She still has another year or two of college when she get back in two years. (About eight hours from me) I can’t stop thinking about her. I close my eyes and still see her smiling. I live in a small town with very few people my age left, and I don’t leave my house much other than for work. I know she would be better off with someone else, but I've never felt attached to anyone before. What are the chances she’ll remember me and want to get together again in two years? Any other opinions? -- Thank you for taking the time to read this