RadioactiveWolfboy Posted July 3, 2008 Report Posted July 3, 2008 He needs help.Most child molesters were molested themselves and seriously need help. If he is not actively doing something to change his behavior then he needs to be removed from society and be registered as a sex offender. You can also see these things come to pass and still forgive him because in essence what you are doing is helping him and helping your daughter and the girls he molested. The innocent are far more important than his feelings. Has your daughter confessed these things to you as well? This could help in getting him the help he needs to end being a monster. It is a possible for change to happen. I met a man who molested/raped his daughters. He was ex'd, but he said that now he does everything he can to be a good man. He apologized to his victims, and he and his new wife do NO babysitting. Family can visit, but no babysitting because he does not want to risk starting the cycle again. He was also sexually abused as a child. It was really interesting.However, with the stalking of your daughter it seems that he is not truly repentant. It could be that he was taunting your daughter that you didn't have him thrown in jail, you don't care about her, or it's okay with you. . . Forgiveness does not mean allowing people to get away from the consequences of their actions.No I went to probation and parole to put the restraining order on him because my daughter is having a hard time filling out the statement they need to press charges. I have encouraged her to press charges, but she has breakdowns everytime she tries. What he did is not okay with me. It takes everything I have not to physically hurt him. My daughter is getting closer to filling out that statement. If she does, I suspect it will be jail this time.Rich
RadioactiveWolfboy Posted July 3, 2008 Report Posted July 3, 2008 I have told the police and probation and parole all that I know, and mom has too. Plus my daughter gave a statement to probation and parole. She was a wreck for a week after that. According to the police, they won't charge him until my daughter gives a statement.
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