the_kid_in_the_korner Posted October 11, 2004 Report Posted October 11, 2004 ok i love my mom but she will say one thing to me and do another or do something then lie and she talks about my friends (who are the only reason i dont do drugs) behind my back and ive talked to her before she always gets pissed and says im ur mother i no whats coming when u dont and that every time i piss her off she could die (which is true, she has heart problems) so should i hold my tongue or say something because either way im going to feel really bad.
toto Posted October 11, 2004 Report Posted October 11, 2004 So what do you need help with? Do you want to find a way to get along with your Mother? I would love to help ya.
toto Posted October 11, 2004 Report Posted October 11, 2004 oh never mind, now I see the question. Sorry didn't read correctly. haha hmmmm
toto Posted October 11, 2004 Report Posted October 11, 2004 Maybe you should say something, but say it in a calm voice. Yelling or saying it in anger is always a bad thing. Take a deep breath, count to 10 and really try to tell your Mother how you feel. She should understand if you pour your heart out. That's what I do when I get real pissed. There are two sides to this. Get her point of view. Your Mom loves you. I'm sure she's just a little parinoid, she cares for you that much. I'm sure having being a mother of a teenager isn't easy. Moms can sometimes over-react. Show her that you are a responsible person. Nobody's perfect, remember that. Sometimes i get real jealous of people who have these perfect families and perfect parents, when in reality we all have problems. Communication is the most important thing. My family and I hardly ever talk. They don't even know who I am. It's sad. I wish that me and my Mom weren't the only members. Family Home evening is something that all families should do. i wish mine did. Anyway, I talk too much. I'm not even sure if this helped, but just know that you aren't the only one having issues with your parents. We all do at some point. We are all here for you. Never take your family for granted, no matter how annoying they are. Think positive. Just tell your Mom you don't want to be mad anymore. Tell her you love her and ask her why she does the things she does. Maybe there's a reason. Talk to her. Good Luck.
easternee Posted October 16, 2004 Report Posted October 16, 2004 well you should for 1 talk to your mom just in a rally nice way and tell her that you need to talk. But still you shouldn't do drugs it is bad for you
easternee Posted October 19, 2004 Report Posted October 19, 2004 Originally posted by the_kid_in_the_korner@Oct 11 2004, 08:33 AM (who are the only reason i dont do drugs) ok now why would you say duh if you said the only reaseon you aren't doing drugs is because of your friends :)
the_kid_in_the_korner Posted October 19, 2004 Author Report Posted October 19, 2004 Originally posted by easternee+Oct 19 2004, 05:37 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (easternee @ Oct 19 2004, 05:37 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--the_kid_in_the_korner@Oct 11 2004, 08:33 AM (who are the only reason i dont do drugs) ok now why would you say duh if you said the only reaseon you aren't doing drugs is because of your friends :) every1 knows drugs are bad, its a fact im not stupid and thats why i said duh
Writer_Chick1213 Posted November 6, 2004 Report Posted November 6, 2004 I agree a lot with what toto said. You should talk to your mom because if you don't then your relationship will get even more distant. Look at both perspectives, talk calmly, and say a prayer before you start. Families have obligations to be there for each other, unfortunately sometimes this doesn't always happen. All you can do is try and just show her that you love her.
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