Lies lies lies

[BellaBella]

Thanks for all the replies.

for some weeeeirrd reason I couldn't access some of my own forums...hence - no replies.

[drjme]

Don't be quick to judge him as deceitful and a bad person. Depression makes people do crazy things. I know from experience that it plays havoc with the way you think and act, for me rest came in admitting everything was not alright, That needed to admit to my wife how I felt, what I was struggling with inside me.

the reasons I lied and hid things from her was because I wanted to protect her from our problems, I wanted her to have everything she wanted, and didn't want to burden her with how things were at the time. I didn't want her to worry, so I took it all on myself.

By finally opening up and by releasing a whole lot of pent up issues, I was able to start back to getting right. While my case wasn't extreme, when you are in that place you need help, love and support and understanding to help pull you through to the otherside.